VICIOUS CIRCLE- TRUST BUT VERIFY

“As thou sow thou reap”

Have you ever realized that when you call out your name loudly at the end of mountain, your voice echoes and come back to you in the same way?

The same happens with our behavior too because life is a vicious circle of happenings; our action and their reaction. Many times, we got trapped in vicious circle because for every other thing we have two different perspectives, then how will the universe work in our favor?

“Life works on action and reaction”

Vicious circle is a continuing unpleasant situation, created when one problem causes another problem that then makes the first problem worse. Human beings itself creates vicious circle- “apne pair pe kulhadi marna.”

Biggest real-life example is terrorism in Pak. As while sowing the seeds of terrorism against India, they got the fruit of terrorism in their own country. They could not understand that violence will only increase cycle of violence. Terrorism is not only fratricidal but also suicidal. We itself create a dig to jump in- first we destroy natural habitats and then allocate funds for preservation of ecosystem. This is the typical conservation vicious circle in India.

Let’s understand this circle by putting simple question in the minds of readers- Would you like to have (a) Job or (b) Experience? If you choose (a) then you require experience and if you choose (b) then you need a job first. Not only unemployed are trapped in this but many entrepreneurs and small business are caught in this vicious circle. They have to find the clients and then serve the clients but while they are serving the clients they have no time to find other new clients. Some are very lucky to get referrals, but this is not predictable means of producing consistent revenue.

History is repeating since East India Company gained right to establish factory in India. Whether its Mughal Emperor’s fault, PNB fraud case with Nirav Modi, Vodafone fraud case with ICICI or much trending Pandya’s comment on Koffee with Karan- It not only effected his image, but he is also being caught in the vicious circle of team selection.

We all get trap in this circle because we are human beings, we are being afraid of losing the things. Ultimately, fear of failure generates a vicious circle that creates what is most feared. To break this cycle, you need to make peace with failure. It isn’t enough to merely tolerate it. You need to appreciate the failure and use it.

When you are trapped in the vicious circle-

·         Shift your focus by letting go the problem and not trying to fix things. There are times when situations are best left alone temporarily.

·         Change and raise your vibration by focusing on what gives you joy.

·         Invite other people into your life by having a giving heart. Share your knowledge and joy with people who want them.

We must learn from #Metoo movement for breaking out vicious circle- #VinitaNanda - “I just want to tell every young girl that if you remain silent, you will be trapped in vicious circle”

Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.

All the best…!